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The murder of teenage TikTok star Sana Yousaf is exposing the rot in our society

The murder of teenage TikTok star Sana Yousaf is exposing the rot in our society

As half the country mourns the death of a bright young girl, others celebrate it because she was a 'TikToker'.
Updated 03 Jun, 2025

Sana Yousaf, a 17-year-old medical student and popular TikTok creator from Chitral, was shot dead inside her home in Islamabad on Monday evening — a murder that has shaken many across the country. The teenager, who had recently celebrated her birthday, was gunned down in front of her mother and aunt by an unidentified man who fled the scene, according to an FIR.

On Tuesday, Interior Minister Mohsin Naqvi confirmed that the Islamabad police had arrested the prime suspect in the case. Naqvi said the police had recovered the pistol from the man as well as Sana’s mobile phone. The suspect also confessed to the murder, he added.

During a press conference on Tuesday, Islamabad Inspector General Syed Ali Nasir Rizvi said the suspect is a 22-year-old who they believe murdered Sana because she repeatedly refused his advances.

The news sparked a wave of heartbreak and fury online. Many are mourning the loss of a bright, young girl — not just a social media personality with thousands of followers. Others are expressing frustration at how her identity as a TikToker is being used to dehumanise her, even in death.

A quick scroll through Sana’s TikTok and Instagram accounts shows a regular young girl posting about everyday life events, videos of her lip-synching to funny dialogues from movies, restaurant visits, travel content, promotional posts, and celebrations.

Users are unfortunately having to highlight that the problem isn’t TikTok or that Sana was a ‘TikToker’ — it’s a culture of impunity and a mindset that continues to excuse or even celebrate violence against women.

Another day, another cold-blooded murder

“A child, full of dreams, silenced before life could even unfold,” an X user wrote. “What kind of world are we creating — where innocence is stolen before it even has a chance to shine?”

“Another day, another cold-blooded murder in the federal capital,” a user lamented.

“Disgusted to the core,” wrote Mahira Khan.

Netizens called attention to the broader epidemic of femicide in Pakistan — where women, girls, and gender minorities are routinely subjected to violence, often under the guise of honour, morality, or public decency.

“She celebrated her birthday earlier today. She was a first-year medical student. Femicide is rampant in Pakistan,” a user pointed out.

“Fragile male ego at work again,” a user remarked. “A beautiful, 17-year-old girl was probably too much for their Herculean masculinity to handle that she was a TikToker! So what they did do? Shot her dead! Sana Yousaf, I am sorry. May your soul find peace!”

When the response to murder is celebration

While many expressed heartbreak over the loss of a young life, in Facebook comments and TikTok reposts, some users were seen celebrating Sana’s death, implying that her online presence somehow warranted a violent end.

And while news of Sana’s killing made headlines, much of the focus zoomed in on her identity as a TikTok star — as if her being a ‘TikToker’ made her less of a person and more of a target.

“I was browsing Facebook and only checked the comments — people were expressing joy,” one user wrote. “It makes me feel ashamed that I belong to a nation where some take pleasure in the suffering of innocent girls,” a user wrote.

Others also shared screenshots of similar celebratory comments, calling on the authorities to do something.

“Slutshaming a child after her murder is not new to Pakistan,” one user commented. “You are all accomplices.”

Users also pushed back against labelling Sana a “TikToker”, arguing that reducing her to her online identity distracted from the crime committed against her.

“TikToker isn’t a tribe, caste or crime,” one user argued. “Why not say ‘a teenage girl’ or ‘student’ was killed? Why fixate on the platform she used?”

“I strongly condemn the brutal killing of Sana Yousaf,” another user posted. “Uploading videos on TikTok is not a crime.”

The backlash has reignited calls to term this phenomenon what it is — not just misogyny, not just cyberbullying, but a society-wide normalisation of violence against women.

“The comments saying that this is good because she’s on TikTok seem to primarily be coming from young men. Pakistan has a big problem and it’s not feminism or women posting TikToks — it’s rabid, frothing-at-the-mouth, enraged lunatic men who believe all women are their property,” wrote RJ Sabah Bano Malik.

“Men have a men problem,” she added. “Men keep murdering girls and women and trans people and guess what? Other men. So are men going to do something about men? Or will we continue to act like men murdering women is a woman’s problem to solve?”

What now?

Calls for justice have flooded social media timelines.

“This can’t become normal,” journalist Ihtisham-ul-Haq posted. “Justice must be swift and firm. The killers must be made an example of.”

And while justice should of course be served, nothing can bring Sana back. She was a young girl — one who should have been studying for her next exam, making another funny video, or celebrating her birthday with family. Instead, she was murdered — and people are celebrating it.

Let’s be clear: the problem is not TikTok. The problem is not a young girl posting videos. The problem is that a girl was murdered, and instead of grieving the tragic loss of a young life, some people are celebrating it.

If that isn’t reflective of the rot in our society, what is?

Comments

Falcon1 Jun 03, 2025 04:07pm
It is NOT exactly a shocking event. Murders, rapes child-molestation and other crimes are reported daily in the media. So why make this teenager's murder a special case? Only because this unfortunate kid had found fame and fortune so early in her young life, thanks to Social Media?? How did the world survive for the previous thousands of years without such nonsense that consumes more people who have nothing better to do with their time,
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Naseem Jun 03, 2025 04:27pm
Incel act!
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Dr. Salaria, Aamir Ahmad Jun 03, 2025 04:30pm
Gruesome, grisly and great tragedy. Inna Lilla Hay Waa Inna Illehey Rajayoon.
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UD Jun 03, 2025 04:36pm
I feel sorry for this innocent girl.
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Ahmed Jun 03, 2025 04:42pm
This is violence. Don't make it something it's not "violence against women". Otherwise the issue will never be resolved. Men are killed in the same society aswell. More men than women. So please stop it.
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Jaswinder Sandhu Jun 03, 2025 05:45pm
What a "culture" we Punjabies have,shame on us. "Agar tu meri nahi hoti to kisi ki nahi ho sakti", I am ashamed of this trend in our culture. Shame on us!
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Alamgir Hossain Jun 03, 2025 08:18pm
Education of the masses been hijacked by fanatics
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Subhan Jun 03, 2025 08:23pm
Inna illahi wa inna illahi raji'oun
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Ahmad Khan Jun 03, 2025 08:31pm
50-100 murders are happening in Gaza everyday. No one is given any attention.
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bsk Jun 03, 2025 08:37pm
She was not a child but a young woman. Marrying at the age of 17 is normal. But why was she murdered? Is it because people on social media mix up connection with mutual emotion? Is its because they think social barriers are removed now that they too can access Tik Tok? A very high level of confusion exists in our urban society about what is or isn't accessible that makes for these unfortunate events.
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Sam Jun 03, 2025 09:13pm
@Falcon1 "people who have nothing better to do with their time" at least it's still better usage of time than people writing long comments hating on those very people. Let them be it's their choice whoever is watching or creating content. Don't like it don't see it keep your cheap moral policing to yourself.
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Irfan k Jun 03, 2025 09:17pm
Jobless Pakistani men creating havoc in society .. the issue is the male dominated society who want women to be slaves
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Raja Gilal Jun 03, 2025 09:53pm
Schadenfreude is shameful. Reckoning to ghastly cruelty is the need of hour. We all have daughters, sisters, we should feel the pain the deprived are going through.
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Immy Jun 04, 2025 12:04am
@FALCOLN1 your missing the point , murder, rape, child sexual exploitation take place in every country and in every culture. Murdering a teenager because she uses a tick-tock account does not happen in every country and every culture is extremely rare . I hope politicians condemn this horrendous event.
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Guman Musafir Jun 04, 2025 02:09am
sadly the insecure moral police in our country would always try to justify violence against the victims that don't conform to their ideals of piety and moral stature. the anonymity of Internet also encourages such outrageous behaviour where special hatred will be directed at the victims and violence justified due to victims lifestyle, faith, gender just take a pick and these haters will have a reason and this tendency is not restricted to males. our female moral police are also very active in this regard.
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Desi padosi Jun 04, 2025 02:18am
So sorry to hear. A large part of our societies is sick.
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Laila Jun 04, 2025 03:12am
See? Pakistani females are free and have all rights! ..the right to be killed, to not be protected, to submit to honor culture, misogyny, patriarchy and social control of female minds, bodies and lives, to be denied legal rights, the right to refuse to be held responsible for male honor, to be shamed, humiliated, tortured, beheaded, raped, harassed, acid attacked, to be victims of customs like vani, gharg, kidnapped, intimidated, not refuse advances or proposals, the right to be dehumanised and forced to live in fear. A little outrage, a little fake shock, a little victim blaming and it's back to normal. Back to denial, tacit silence and complicity. New victim tomorrow. How many honor killings do we have of men by women for cheating, being on tiktok, being bold, being immodest, zina, abuse, going against family force and decisions, for running away abandoning wife and kids, for divorcing wife etc? Yes, indeed, Pakistani females have the right to be treated as worthless second class citizens or worse. Female life is cheap in Pakistan. Nothing will happen. He will walk. Rest in peace, sweet angel Sana. At least now you are safe.
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Ron Jun 04, 2025 04:38am
It is disheartening to observe the prevailing mindset among a segment of men in Pakistan, which appears resistant to change. A significant contributing factor is the country's high illiteracy rate—estimated at around 70%—coupled with widespread lack of access to employment opportunities and long-term prospects. These socioeconomic challenges often push individuals toward negative behaviours that further harm society. Addressing this issue requires systemic reforms in education, job creation, and social awareness to foster a more progressive and inclusive environment.
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Asma Sayeed Jun 04, 2025 09:41am
The poor dear soul. May the killer be hanged as soon as possible!
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Ishrat Hyatt Jun 04, 2025 10:36am
Even you all have used the term Tik Tok star! Its as if this girl had no other identity! May her soul rest in peace! I have lived my life in a very different Pakistan to what it has become today and feel very sad about the change that has taken place.
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Khan Jun 04, 2025 11:34am
Its been almost 4 years since Zahir Jaffer murdered Noor Mukaddam. Still justice is not served and we are expecting justice from ISB Police. Nothing changed after Noor's murder, this country is done. I have no hope.
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QASIM Jun 04, 2025 12:08pm
It is clear that we are living in a society where the rule of law is absent. The feeling of minimal accountability encourages people to violate regulations. If we want to thrive as a society, we must ensure laws that make everyone feel free and secure.
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Mahmood Jun 04, 2025 01:40pm
@SAM, such as your own long, boring drivel which has no logic??
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Laila Jun 04, 2025 02:03pm
On articles of factual child marriages in Pakistan we have males AND females justifying child brides (not grooms, of course) and lack of consent. On articles of factual sexual violence in Pakistan we have people blaming victims of being bold, immodest, modern, liberal, promiscuous (without proof, of course, ghayab se khabar) and too free for getting themselves raped and even beheaded On articles of the factual disproportionately high gender based violence against females in Pakistan, we have people downplaying femicide and murder, and lamenting why this case is special. All comments are from literate and presumably educated Pakistanis. People who should know better. And we wonder why the documented gender based violence, sexual violence and honor base killings are so common and higher for females in Pakistan. With denial, whatsboutism, victim blaming/shaming and deflection, surely we can solve the issues soon - as in never.
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Laila Jun 04, 2025 02:11pm
@Ahmad Khan By "no one" you mean literally EVERYONE. Kindly open/watch/read any news paper, any news website, any social media, TV channel or debates etc But nice try of trying to remove focus from the rampant cases of violence against females in Pakistan.
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Bayu Marrukh Jun 04, 2025 03:17pm
Stalkers need good policing and public need to be educated about raising awareness and alarm as soon as this behaviour is noticed. Police also needs to act to prevent any obsessive behaviour turning into tragedy.
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Bayu Marrukh Jun 04, 2025 03:19pm
If anyone is not shocked by it one ought to worry about their sanity
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Sudeep Purkayastha Jun 04, 2025 05:18pm
Very tragic incidents and disgusting part is that people are celebrating. It's a mindset problem of the society. It signal to an urgent need of societal transformation.
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Wolf Jun 05, 2025 08:06am
Our education institutions have destroyed by powerful starting with General Zia. Zia started destruction from Sindh and ended up 90% uneducated and nothing meaningful left in life to do.
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